Its like this:- An ex friend is being a ****, He is being a **** because he has found out some stuff he did not like, which did not involve going out with him, because i like someone else. He is being a total arsehole about the whole thing and refuses to talk to me. He is even ringing friends that we both used to know(even tho he hardly ever called them before) making sure he tells a twisted side of the story. In the early hours of Sunday morning he sent me two nasty text messages, which i was not pleased about. I think the main problem is what he is going to do next and the fact that i live too close to him. What should i do?

So to summarise, this a a guy who is jealous that you were involved with someone that wasn't him? In that case you just have to hope that the other friends that he has spoken to know you well enough to ignore what he is saying. Jealousy is an evil feeling and really can make people bitter and twisted.

For me, I'd have to know the full story of this 'stuff' that got him so mad before I was able to give educated advice. It's difficult when you don't know all the facts. Just my opinion. :)

From what you've said though I'd be staying silent and letting people make up their own mind. If he's telling your friends things and they're believing it then they're not real friends unless they come to you first for your side of the story.

Plus he's making himself look a real idiot for spreading rumour and gossip.....if that's what it is. Let him rant n rave for a bit. He's digging his own grave in the long run.

There is nowt you can do mate - just sit it out! If owt happens just respond accordingly. And don't go calling him a **** on here because that makes you as bad as what you say he is.
If you feel threatened by him. That's different -just have a word with a sympathetic policeman who will pop round and let him know that if any **** goes down he'll be the first person they'll kick the door down for.
Why don't you women just go out with me then you'll have none of these problems?:loopy: :loopy:

maybe us women like problems, maybe it keeps us going. I see what you are saying. I think thats what i may do, if he says anything i will just laugh it off and ignore it, its probably the best thing to for the moment.

why did he want to go out with a pig? ;)

Maybe he liked the thrill of the hand been stuff up the arse and the fact that its not real............ Its a puppet......

I'd set the hounds on him.

You need our Sheffield Forum hardman.
DaBouncer will sort him,,he's scarey.:)

Debouncer may be hard,but he cant mend a puncture on his m'tain bike can you debouncer!!!!!!

john t

Go to an online site that got a send a text message service. There are some free sites that allow you to do that. Make sure that they don't send an advert along with the message as it won't look professional and the abuser may cotton on. This may involving sendng messages to yourself to try out and find out which one is suitable. The good bit about them is that you do not know who it is from when sent via these sites.

Send a message from that site saying something along the lines of "Auto reply. Your text message to user (<insert your phone number>) has been redirected to ABU (Police Abuse Unit.)" as soon as he send you a nasty text message.

When he tries to reply to that message, it won't be possible as these site do not offer this service. Again, you need to check this out when finding the right site.

That'll stop him. :D