Following on from reading the "what attracts you to a man?" thread, I thought about trying to determine what it is that first attracts me to a girl.

To be honest, I'm struggling to think of something. I know when a girl is attractive to me, but am not sure if there are any common factors for me that I would consider attractive. I like nice shoulders on a girl, but am not sure if that would be the first thing to attract me to someone.

So I'm looking for other opinions. Plus, I'm bored and looking for something to do.

thanks

Their hair and eyes, style, and of course - their bum :hihi:

Their hair and eyes, style, and of course - their bum :hihi:

I'd have to partly agree with x_sunshine_x but i wouldn't say bum its more like boobies :o :hihi: x

Dark hair and dark skinned, pretty face, and I personally are more of an arse man than tits.

I'd have to partly agree with x_sunshine_x but i wouldn't say bum its more like boobies :o :hihi: x

Definately, their eyes never look at your face, they're always oggling a womans boobs. :rolleyes:

I'd have to partly agree with x_sunshine_x but i wouldn't say bum its more like boobies :o :hihi: x

:o the whole package would be great but I'm very picky.

I'm not a full lesbian obviously (cos I love boys) but if I was she would have to be perfect! :hihi:

See, this could be where my gender gets ripped into...:(

See, this could be where my gender gets ripped into...:(

Why?............

Dark hair and dark skinned, pretty face, and I personally are more of an arse man than tits.

My sentiments exactly!

Why?............

Don't worry; I misunderstood something is all. My mistake.:)

its all about the way she's walking, if she's got her head held high, walking along confidently, and smiling especially, my head immediately turns and I want to know more, after that the parts all fit into place or they dont....

Following on from reading the "what attracts you to a man?" thread, I thought about trying to determine what it is that first attracts me to a girl.

To be honest, I'm struggling to think of something. I know when a girl is attractive to me, but am not sure if there are any common factors for me that I would consider attractive. I like nice shoulders on a girl, but am not sure if that would be the first thing to attract me to someone.

So I'm looking for other opinions. Plus, I'm bored and looking for something to do.

thanks
Surely u must think about it. Over a period of time, it'll be the same things that u notice about a girl. No ?

Surely u must think about it. Over a period of time, it'll be the same things that u notice about a girl. No ?

That's the thing- the more I think about it then the more confused I get. I'm looking around our office now and can list about five people that I would class as attractive to me, but for five different reasons.

Maybe I just have less discriminating tastes, though I don't think so.

Usually, I just know a girl is attractive, then after that I have to try to work out why.

Tall women do it for me. Obviously there are various other bits and bobs which I find more, or less attractive, but above-average height is a pre-requisite.

That's the thing- the more I think about it then the more confused I get. I'm looking around our office now and can list about five people that I would class as attractive to me, but for five different reasons.

Maybe I just have less discriminating tastes, though I don't think so.

Usually, I just know a girl is attractive, then after that I have to try to work out why.

Why would you want to work out why exactly she was attractive to you though - isn't it enough to know that she IS attractive to you? When you start to analyse something, you can sometimes take all the life out of it and spoil it.

If we always found exactly the same sort of person attractive, then we might as well design a robot-person clone-type-thing for ourselves and be done with it!

ok, a bit over the top there, but the principle stands..... :hihi:

StarSparkle

its all about the way she's walking, if she's got her head held high, walking along confidently, and smiling especially, my head immediately turns and I want to know more, after that the parts all fit into place or they dont....

I find this as well, a certain style, a confidence, a bearing. Contrast with a woman who used to work here who had all the "usual" attractive attributes. Tall, blonde, pretty, long legs, nice bum but did absolutely nothing for me whatsoever because she'd slope around all day looking miserable.

Tall women do it for me. Obviously there are various other bits and bobs which I find more, or less attractive, but above-average height is a pre-requisite. I am totally the other way, I love small women, preferably ones that don`t think they are on the catwalk! I do not like extrovert women, the leggy look-at-me blonde with the brain that time forgot. The dinky females are lovely and set my hormones alight.:love: :love: Nurse, the screens!:hihi:

Why would you want to work out why exactly she was attractive to you though - isn't it enough to know that she IS attractive to you? When you start to analyse something, you can sometimes take all the life out of it and spoil it.

If we always found exactly the same sort of person attractive, then we might as well design a robot-person clone-type-thing for ourselves and be done with it!

ok, a bit over the top there, but the principle stands..... :hihi:

StarSparkle

Yeah, I know what you're saying, and disagree with you on no points really. It just seems strange to a lot of people that I don't have a specific type (other than female) and determine attractiveness on an ad hoc basis.

Eyes, brighter the better.

First thing that attracts me to a woman? Her husband :D

the fact she's breathing works for me.

Eyes, brighter the better.

Sorry, I missed something off. I also look for a metallic face and parsley.

Ahh... no wonder it's a case of, men see ALL women as potentials, but women see men as friends OR potentials. I get it. ;)

Her daughter.

I don't have a specific type (other than female) and determine attractiveness on an ad hoc basis.

Seconded mate. I don't have a type as such, I've always found myself attracted to girls who just seem to have something about them that I can't quite put my finger on. I think it's in the eyes and the smile.

I find this as well, a certain style, a confidence, a bearing. ...
Is that like 120 degrees North? :huh:

Sorry, that was dreadful...

Is that like 120 degrees North? :huh:

Sorry, that was dreadful...

And a liking for cream!!

or should that be licking.........

Yeah, I know what you're saying, and disagree with you on no points really. It just seems strange to a lot of people that I don't have a specific type (other than female) and determine attractiveness on an ad hoc basis.

I don't see the problem with that? I think it says a lot for you that you - 'judge' for want of a better word - each woman on her own merits, rather than trying to place her into a stereotypical box.

We are each of us different, and it's just laziness to label people as a certain 'type'. I think you're spot-on Hoba in how you look at people. After all, with regard to attraction, surely what really matters between people is the chemistry they generate together, and that's something you can't know about until it happens!

StarSparkle :)

Personality for me, if she has brunette hair, not too big boobs and nice eyes and about 5ft6" then that could well be heaven for me....hope you read this Soph, u know I'm talking about u. :hihi:

Eyes, smile and attitude. I cant be dealing with quiet women. I can be very overbearing and I need someone who can fight fire with fire and not let me get my own way all the time.

But at at closing time T*** and a pulse wil cover it for me !!!!! :D

And a liking for cream!!

or should that be licking.........
See you in November, babes :love: :P .

Id have to say her ars then face then personality, but thats me.;)

Personality for me, if she has brunette hair, not too big boobs and nice eyes and about 5ft6" then that could well be heaven for me....hope you read this Soph, u know I'm talking about u. :hihi:

savannah- thats really scary coz i know youre not talking to me....

....but youve just described me!

sophie
x

Personality for me, if she has brunette hair, not too big boobs and nice eyes and about 5ft6" then that could well be heaven for me....hope you read this Soph, u know I'm talking about u. :hihi:

:o I'm 5'6, brunette and not too big boobs!

but I'm not called Sophie! :hihi:

Id love to say not bum but id be a liar.

However, if a lass with a nice petite-yet-curvy figure has those dimples in their lower back, "thumb holes" me and my friend refer to them as due to the convenience of their location from a certain perspective, then thats a turn on :thumbsup:

:o I'm 5'6, brunette and not too big boobs!

but I'm not called Sophie! :hihi:


Only got one thing 2 say 2 you deedpoll :hihi: :love:

savannah- thats really scary coz i know youre not talking to me....

....but youve just described me!

sophie
x


Aww, bless...now I have two Sophies...:hihi:

Aww, bless...now I have two Sophies...:hihi:

lol! i reckon ones more than enough so youre probably best to stick with the one youve already got ;)


sophie
x

lol! i reckon ones more than enough so youre probably best to stick with the one youve already got ;)


sophie
x


Gosh I scared Sophie #2 away..lol :help:

Istill say her ars.:help:

lol, you didnt scare me- i just dont want you getting into trouble with your sophie.

sophie
x

Anybody find bums attractive.:help:

Anybody find bums attractive.:help:

What those bearded alcoholics falling around West St outside Bargain Beers? Nah not especially :)

What those bearded alcoholics falling around West St outside Bargain Beers? Nah not especially :)
******** someone else seen me.

If a mortician can do anything to tidy her up, then all she has to do is exist to attract me.

Im picky.

Anybody find bums attractive.:help:


Are you jelous of tramps and their free wheeling care free lifestyle?

I am totally the other way, I love small women, preferably ones that don`t think they are on the catwalk! I do not like extrovert women, the leggy look-at-me blonde with the brain that time forgot. The dinky females are lovely and set my hormones alight.:love: :love: Nurse, the screens!:hihi:
ummm, i small, at least now i know,, i have chance of getting notice,, he he hehe

Are you jelous of tramps and their free wheeling care free lifestyle?
Not sure but i like a good ars on a women and not one of those skinny posh spice ones.Thank you.:confused:

If a mortician can do anything to tidy her up, then all she has to do is exist to attract me.

Im picky.

Welcome back jabbers, sorry I'm alive and well.....No good too you :hihi: :hihi:

Welcome back jabbers, sorry I'm alive and well.....No good too you :hihi: :hihi:
I said that was the minimum requirement. I see maggots as an added advantage.
Thanks for the welcome back but I didnt really leave.
Not actually leave...

I said that was the minimum requirement. I see maggots as an added advantage.
Thanks for the welcome back but I didnt really leave.
Not actually leave...


I know you didn't, i felt your presence all the time....you didn't leave me :hihi:
You goin fishing, just curious.....maggots :help:

BTW you turning this into a chat thread :hihi: :suspect:

Anybody find bums attractive.:help:

Me on men in a nice pair of jeans :)

Their hair and eyes, style, and of course - their bum :hihi:
They have to have style which is why fake tan and Top Slop clothing is a no no for me.

A face with character at least and a good line in conversation, no that does not include shoes.

Personally for me:

I'm not into looks as I think that is very shallow, so I prefer someone's personality and if they can stimulate me mentally, could be talking about absolutely anything but thats a big plus for me.

Also- I like people with confidence, and people who are independent as well.
I want someone with their own opinions and ideas and someone who is not affraid to stand up for themselves.

Like I said, I dont mind the physical side at all- I also dont mind age as well.
:)

...I'm not into looks as I think that is very shallow, so I prefer someone's personality and if they can stimulate me mentally, could be talking about absolutely anything but thats a big plus for me....
I agree wholeheartedly about the personality thing, but ultimately you have to find the person physically attractive too, surely? I'm not saying that s/he should be conventionally attractive, but without that spark - of which I think physical attraction is a component - you're left with nothing but a very good friend.

You can stay up all night putting the world to rights with someone who stimulates you mentally, who shares your opinions and ideas. Great as this is it's hardly the only requirement for a relationship. Bill Hicks was witty, intelligent and I shared a lot of his apparent ideals; but I wouldn't have wanted to, well, you know... :) .

Price for me:thumbsup:

Price for me:thumbsup:

ROFLMAO :hihi:

Personally, I love girls with giant paper mache heads.

just a pulse

I'm a Leg and Ass man personally - However, face and hair is important - nice pair of breaticles is a nice bonus - Ooooo forgot about stomachs and belly buttons - they're sexy!

infact - everything!!!!

The way a woman smells does it for me. If she smells nice I'd turn round immediately. Slightly tanned, a bit taller than me, brunette with blue eyes, a nice pair of boobs, and not too slim/not too fat.
Not too overconfident, not thick. Just someone I can talk to about a variety of things.

Well for me it would be good legs and i like an unusal face.

Eyes. I love a woman with eyes that you could fall into. Natalie Wood, the actress had eyes like that.

gotta be her smile - if you smile at her and she smiles back it is sooo heart warming :love: :love: :love:

gotta be her smile - if you smile at her and she smiles back


How about this for a smile?

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

Nice hey?

This is very interesting to hear what men really think - especially as most of you have said you prefer non-skinny girls! Angelus has the right idea about personality - beauty is in the eye of the beholder (thankfully).

big breasts and ability to cook and bring the right beer perfectly chilled

How about this for a smile?

:D :D :D :D :D :D

Nice hey?

meh...ive had better;) :hihi:

need to sort out the stains on the front on yer teeth luv!:hihi: ;)

Intelligence too. There is nothing sexier than intelligence in a female.

Intelligence too. There is nothing sexier than intelligence in a female.

not too intelligent tho....quite the opposite...id hate to be contastnly out smarted by a smart arse...wud do my head in!

not too intelligent tho....quite the opposite...id hate to be contastnly out smarted by a smart arse...wud do my head in!
With spelling and punctuation like that, she wouldn't have too much difficulty... ;) .

Sorry. Couldn't resist :D .

not too intelligent tho....quite the opposite...id hate to be contastnly out smarted by a smart arse...wud do my head in!
Well i was being relative. "intelligence" to a female is being able to blink and walk at the same time without tripping over.



Oh god Im SO gonna get it for that one!

With spelling and punctuation like that, she wouldn't have too much difficulty... ;) .

Sorry. Couldn't resist :D .

OH. MY. GOD.

[QUOTE=brummieade]not too intelligent tho....quite the opposite...id hate to be contastnly out smarted by a smart arse...wud do my head in![/QUOT

That wouldn't be to hard either judging by your spelling sweetheart :hihi: :P

With spelling and punctuation like that, she wouldn't have too much difficulty... ;) .

Sorry. Couldn't resist :D .

:hihi: :hihi:

With spelling and punctuation like that, she wouldn't have too much difficulty... ;) .

Sorry. Couldn't resist :D .

great minds think alike ;) :thumbsup:

ok ok lets all take the schmeichael out of brummies shall we...u all having fun?

DEFINITELY a big put off (different thread i know) when u all gang up!:hihi:

well im all paranoid now...i am going to (when i was going to write i'm gonna) write the way one would speak from this day forward. How is that?:hihi:

nah not all women are smart arses...just my ex's for some reason...

well im all paranoid now...i am going to (when i was going to write i'm gonna) write the way one would speak from this day forward. How is that?:hihi:
Let's see. Not too bad.

Main points:

First letter of a sentence should have a capital letter.
You've missed an apostrophe out of I'm.
You need to capitalize the personal pronoun 'I' .

8/10 :) .

Let's see. Not too bad.

Main points:

First letter of a sentence should have a capital letter.
You've missed an apostrophe out of I'm.
You need to capitalize the personal pronun 'I' .

8/10 :) .

Are you an english teacher? I got an A for my English A level don't you know!!!

meh...ive had better;) :hihi:

need to sort out the stains on the front on yer teeth luv!:hihi: ;)


LOL! Some guys are just so fussy are'nt they! :rolleyes:

No wonder you're still single if you get bothered about a bit of teeth stainage!!! :P

*books dentist appointment* :hihi:

Ohh..not having read the whole thread but... I can potentially see how I'm telepathetically be drawn to brummieade.

I see a pattern forming... it's called the 'cave man' syndrome.
Sit at home, tie to the kitchen sink. Don't talk. Be pretty. Smile ! :D


Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat???? no way jose...i never implied that!

Ahem, back to the original thread.....what attracts you to women...any takers?!

Are you an english teacher? I got an A for my English A level don't you know!!!
No. Good grief! I didn't really believe that A Level standards were falling, but it looks like I was wrong ;) :hihi: .

Are you an english teacher? I got an A for my English A level don't you know!!!

"English" with a capital E because it is a proper noun. :rolleyes:

Ahem, back to the original thread.....what attracts you to women...any takers?!

By the look's of thing's mate your doing just fine, you shouldn't be single for much longer.... :hihi: ;)

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat???? no way jose...i never implied that!

Ahem, back to the original thread.....what attracts you to women...any takers?!
Well, there's this template that is instilled in any woman's head, and a little bell go 'ring-ga-ling-ling' when she spots a classic example which fits this template. ;)

*Cough*
Well... back to the original thread.
Even though I'm a girl, I'm attracted to a woman who is gutsy. (Not attraction on a sexual level, but respect, in a way.) I don't particularly like a grown up woman who is *really* childish and girlish in front of me. I'm not their bf, so when a girl begs and be girly. It turns me right off !

so er, yeah i reckon the thread has died.

Bago - yes English does in fact have a capital E.

Hecate - very funny - i think you should have your own TV show. (Ok, T.V.)

Saylou - yes dear, your teeth are fine and so what if i'm single...for the time being it suits me fine....for the time being i said...

Thank you all who participated in this thread...you have made me see that my English A level is about as useful as Rodney Trotters GCE (the old a levels i believe) and i feel that it would be of more use working as a street cleaner.

I couldn't put my finger on one particular thing that is more likely to turn my head, but I do place the ability to hold a conversation very highly. I like girls who aren't self obsessed, have a level head and who are reasonably intelligent.

Then once I've got to know her I find that I start to like each facet of her body more and more as time goes on.....it's about the best application of the term 'learning curve' I can think of, and I love it.

I'm currently going through this process, and boy is it fun :D

Thank you all who participated in this thread...you have made me see that my English A level is about as useful as Rodney Trotters GCE (the old a levels i believe) and i feel that it would be of more use working as a street cleaner.

I think you mean old GCSEs ....

Then once I've got to know her I find that I start to like each facet of her body more and more as time goes on.....it's about the best application of the term 'learning curve' I can think of, and I love it.

I'm currently going through this process, and boy is it fun :D
LOL. Yes, thank you for sharing...erm...

I er... hope your other half will enjoy this post too. (While the rest of us be sick in a bucket.) :hihi:

I think you mean old GCSEs ....

no - when i took a levels they were called GCEs...

Old GCSEs I think you mean....
The old system was GCE (General Certificate of Education) O (Ordinary) Level and GCE A (Advanced) Level.

So, you're both right.

Back to the thread topic...

horay for sanity!

From this thread, ive decided that there is nothing better in a woman that can dish out banter like there is no tomorrow....very funny and strangely attractive!

I think you mean old GCSEs ....
I think he meant old A-level GCEs.
There's an old O-level GCE too.

I think Brummiade and myself is definitely old ! lol...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_Certificate_of_Education

I feel kinda freaked actually cos we're all pedantically correcting the facts ! :hihi:

[Added] Sorry...
There's CSE too.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_Certificate_of_Secondary_Education

I think he meant old A-level GCEs.
There's an old O-level GCE too.

I think Brummiade and myself is definitely old ! lol...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/General_Certificate_of_Education

oi! im 24!!:hihi: :hihi:

Oh, a youngling.

Then once I've got to know her I find that I start to like each facet of her body more and more as time goes on.....it's about the best application of the term 'learning curve' I can think of, and I love it.

I'm currently going through this process, and boy is it fun :D


:gag: :gag: :gag: Get a grip, man! :gag: :gag: :gag:

Good job she's only little and doesn't have many curves for you to learn ;)

:gag: :gag: :gag: Get a grip, man! :gag: :gag: :gag:

Good job she's only little and doesn't have many curves for you to learn ;)

LOL - It's not just the curves, though they are undoubtedly fun....:love:

LOL - It's not just the curves, though they are undoubtedly fun....:love:


aw i think its sweet that a bloke can that approach

The old system was GCE (General Certificate of Education) O (Ordinary) Level and GCE A (Advanced) Level.

So, you're both right.

Back to the thread topic...


Just one more point - there is no way Rodney Trotter passed an A level or equivilent, so I'm right.

Neil wins.

Fact.

:D

my my my ive opened a rite can of worms here.

What attracts me to a woman...
-her smile
-sense of humour - which has just been highlighted on this thread - the women involved with the banter earlier...i find you all strangely attractive.

Just one more point - there is no way Rodney Trotter passed an A level or equivilent, so I'm right.

Neil wins.

Fact.

:D

..................silence........................

I think I'm getting deaf in my old age. :hihi:

Back on topic please.....

Big funbags and a cute little ass.

All these that say it's personality - they live with tug boats!!

Being in a higher tax bracket seems to strangely help!

:hihi:

Tall women do it for me. Obviously there are various other bits and bobs which I find more, or less attractive, but above-average height is a pre-requisite.

I'm 5'10 - tall enough for you?/ ;)

I'm 5'10 - tall enough for you?/ ;)

Certainly! With heels...

Red hair - I've fallen for every redhead I've ever met

;)

Red hair - I've fallen for every redhead I've ever met

;)

I'd agree with that.... something about gingers!

There is no reductionist, unitary answer to this important question, at least as far as I am concerned. I am initially attracted to both the woman's face and to her buttocks, being what is known in common parlance as something of an 'arse man' [at least I think that is what my wife called me]. However, both areas can blur beautifully into a glorious oneness, as in the case of my dear wife, Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce etc.

Certainly! With heels...

Perhaps I should have said "plus heels". Not that I have a fetish or anything. Oh no.

If she looks like she has no morals at all.

Yes you can spot it. You just have to know what to look for.

What's attractive about certain women ? .....Well......er ..... if they're driving a nice little ferrari , that can be attractive ; a mink coat always adds allure to the female personality , I think . Now , what else ......? Oh , yes , if they live in a bit of style in Dore or Mayfield Valley , that makes them practically irresistable . A couple of servants wouldn't go amiss either , or a small hideaway in Mayfair .
Age , face , legs , body ? No problem and completely irrelevant to the true worshipper of the gentler sex .

If she looks like she has no morals at all.

Yes you can spot it. You just have to know what to look for. A tuppence Like a derelict wardrobe!:gag:

A tuppence Like a derelict wardrobe!:gag:

No clothes in it?

Perhaps I should have said "plus heels". Not that I have a fetish or anything. Oh no.

Heels I CAN do! Cheerfully, as long as I haven't got a 5 foot nothing bloke on my arm :rolleyes:

No.1 Big T*TS :love: :thumbsup:
No.2 Nice Arse :thumbsup:
No.3 Long Hair :thumbsup:

No.1 Big T*TS :love: :thumbsup:
No.2 Nice Arse :thumbsup:
No.3 Long Hair :thumbsup:

Ye... but you don't know whether they have long hair until you get down there!! :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

Mod. Note

Can I request that we stop this thread just above the level of the gutter?

Please try and bear in mind the 'family friendly' side of this place.

thanks

Joe

Mod. Note

Can I request that we stop this thread just above the level of the gutter?

Please try and bear in mind the 'family friendly' side of this place.

thanks

Joe


My apologies - I took it too far!

I'm amazed it took 9 pages to degenerate!

Heels I CAN do! Cheerfully, as long as I haven't got a 5 foot nothing bloke on my arm :rolleyes:

Wonderful! If only you were single, nearly thirty and with brown hair, you would be my perfect woman! But that just couldn't be possible could it?

Wonderful! If only you were single, nearly thirty and with brown hair, you would be my perfect woman! But that just couldn't be possible could it?

I'd be there, except I'm not single and I don't think me bloke would like to share! I can do heels too, but I dwarf most people even without them.

I like a nice straight parting.

I'm putty in a dark haired woman's hands

It's the only time I shut up lol.

Wilf

I don't think me bloke would like to share!

Surely it wouldn't do any harm to ask him?

The first thing that attracts has got to be the face.

I like big eyes, big lips and an hourglass figure, ncie boobs too :) I'm not a lesbian either :P

Wonderful! If only you were single, nearly thirty and with brown hair, you would be my perfect woman! But that just couldn't be possible could it?

Its your lucky day ;)

Its your lucky day ;)

Woohoo!...

Ye... but you don't know whether they have long hair until you get down there!! :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

That's class :hihi: :hihi: :hihi: :thumbsup:

That's class :hihi: :hihi: :hihi: :thumbsup:

Oh dear. There's always soemone who has to revisit the gutter.

Please don't - it would be nice to keep this thread open if possible.

Thank you.

Its different for everyone i found and married mine 38 years ago. You will know when you find her. Perhaps we need a thread on how you survive being with the same partner for all those years?

Oh dear. There's always soemone who has to revisit the gutter.

Please don't - it would be nice to keep this thread open if possible.

Thank you.

What's the problem no sense of humour?

You have been banned for the following reason:
Ignoring a Moderator request to try and keep the thread 'family friendly'.
Date the ban will be lifted: 15-08-2006, 08:00 PM

Bit trigger happy aren't you? If the thread is so family friendly and this post is so "bad" then why didn't you delete the post by Blade1983 that i replied to? :huh: :help:

I didn't add anything else than to say i thought it was amusing (class),with nothing added to make it any worse so the only reason to ban me is because i "ignored a Moderator" but considering i didn't do anything not to keep it family friendly then it shouldn't really matter!:huh:

If the post isn't family friendly then the fault is yours for not doing your role as moderator and deleting it!!! You can't say a thread or post isn't "family Friendly" and then leave it their for everyone to read.....including families!?!?:loopy:

Oh no i've just realised i've questioned a Mod again (whoops) that will be me banned again........oh well:hihi: