My friend's a newbi to the sheffield forum and shes reading all my past threads its making me uncomfortable... my past threads are in the past, i live for the new.... am i wrong to feel this why:huh: ?

does it matter if she reads them :huh:

My friends a newbi to the sheffield forum and shes reading all my passed threads its making me uncomfortable... my past threads are in the paced i live for the new.... am i wrong to feel this why:huh: ?

when i spilt up from my ex (who is also a forumer) he used to read all mine also which i found very uncomfortable :(

but he says he doesnt bother now so im happy:D

why not try speaking to your freind and tell them how you feel


good luck :thumbsup:

i dont give a **** who reads mine :)

yes i think it matters too me...coz i think if you read all my posts you know everything about me even which side i chew on,and my deep thought on things etc it was then and now is now.

just told her to stop it because it makes me feel weird lol and she says she has so its ok now. anymore people that wouldn't like this and why ?

Well it is a public forum, so anyone can read it.
If its something that you dont want someone to know, dont post it.

think you're being a tad sensitive

I think it'd be flattering if you want someone to be interested in you. If you're not interested in someone knowing that much about you then I'd say it's normal to feel uneasy as the fact that they're bothering to search through past posts would indicate that they're taking a bit more than a passing interest :|

i love her to bits:love: we are very close, it just felt odd. i have space's etc and don't mind any one looking, strange of me really :loopy: to feel that why may be i think she could ask :confused: me anything she wants to know rather than read old stuff.
People opinions change and we grow :gag: my spelling's get worse though:hihi:

It's not strange, having your own 'space' makes total sense. If you care about her that much though maybe it shouldn't be surprised that she feels the same way about you & is just showing this by mentioning reading your past posts :)

i find it odd when people do that,you could come say have just found this bored wasn't looking through your threads,i did it other day as a laugh zo u should no me better.
Whats it matter what i read bird we have no secrets.
I told u i wouldnt do it again,anyhow.
And as for my posts read away i have nothing to hide i really couldn't give a flying hoot who reads them charlie

this is charlies mate im writing to say u should all read charlies threads we would all love to know what she is up to,lol
I know what a bad un she is lol
no she is a star and i wouldnt let any one say any diffo.
She wouldn't of done anything to offend anyone she would have done it as a laugh.any way paranoids am off charlies big bro

I only have a few past threads because I so rarely type anything, but the few that are around are deep, intelligent and informative.

It doesnt bother me but then again I never would post something that could bother me if someone I knew read it, if you get what I mean!!

I can understand that sometimes it feels like it could be bringing up the past but if she mentions something from an old thread just state to her that it's an old discussion/thought and you don't wish to elaborate on it etc

Try not to let it bother you!!

:)

My mates can read them if they want. If i dont want people to know anything then i dont write it on a public forum.

At the end of the day, i am me, and i dont give 2 hoots what anyone thinks :) they either like me for me or dont bother at all. :cool: