well!! me and my b/f were havin a lil chat about romantic gestures (we have been together a month) and he was askin me if any of my ex'es have bought me flowers/ pressies and i said yes, one of them bought me flowers, champagne and cuddly toys but the others didnt- which i (think) is more normal for men in their early 20's!!

he said he has never bought a lass flowers and has never even wined and dined a lass unless u count pub meals hahah!! i personally like a few treats her and there and i love buyin a pressy for my man to spice things up and make them feel wanted but i also believe u can tell more from how someone is with you and the things they say mean a lot more!!

whadya think?

I bought my girlfriend a pot plant.

one of them bought me flowers, champagne and cuddly toys but the others didnt- which i (think) is more normal for men in their early 20's!!

And thats why he is an ex.

Treat em (fairly) mean and keep em keen ;)


Hahaha jokes aside. No, I ain't ever bought flowers or champers for my lucky lady but I did buy her a load of big Finding Nemo teddies once to make her smile when she was a bit glum...Did the trick :thumbsup:

I bought my girlfriend a pot plant.

Something nice for her to look at whilst at the kitchen sink :thumbsup:

i get bunches of flowers in winter (not in summer cos of the nasty pollen!!!) and other things, I get pretty rocks (penguin stylee) too :)

Something nice for her to look at whilst at the kitchen sink :thumbsup:
She's getting a new kettle for her birthday. :)

Flowers are crap, they die quick! The ugly Grey bears always do the trick! And don't die... And they hold a red rose in their hands.. :P

And thats why he is an ex.

Treat em (fairly) mean and keep em keen ;)


Hahaha jokes aside. No, I ain't ever bought flowers or champers for my lucky lady but I did buy her a load of big Finding Nemo teddies once to make her smile when she was a bit glum...Did the trick :thumbsup:

:hihi: :hihi:

no its not why he is an ex he was a coke head but thats another story!!

i dont mean it in a soppy way but i like buying maybe a top/ aftershave and i like/ wud like :hihi: to get perfume or a cd but NOT flowers i find it a bit cheesy!
as for romantic meals- well me and my mates were talkin about this a few weeks ago and i was glad to find im not the only one who finds the whole candles/ soppy music/ dim lighting thing SICKENINGLY embarrasing!! id rather have a night on the tiles with a man!! :)

:hihi: :hihi:
id rather have a night on the tiles with a man!! :)

Absolute no-no. My girlfriend thinks I am mad but I refuse to go out down town with my girlfriend because its not as good as with your mates. I find the going down town with your partners thing all a bit alien...Granted I would find an occasion like NYE or something like that hard to reject her constant moans but otherwise no, forget it.

First off, if you see someone trying it on with your partner, fuelled by a few drinks, you get a little ****** off, as your partner would. Then if you have a friend of the opposite sex you know and have a little chat to...you need to explain who it is and if you see an ex-partner or something what I like to call a 'clinger' then the situation can potentially spiral out of your own control.

Its not a situation I like, I can trust my girl to go out on her own...although I don't think that trust is reciprocated from her end!

I've been with my partner for 3 n a half years and i've never had a bunch of flowers up until about 2 weeks ago when we had a huge bust up and he went and bought me some red roses x

Absolute no-no. My girlfriend thinks I am mad but I refuse to go out down town with my girlfriend because its not as good as with your mates. I find the going down town with your partners thing all a bit alien...Granted I would find an occasion like NYE or something like that hard to reject her constant moans but otherwise no, forget it.

First off, if you see someone trying it on with your partner, fuelled by a few drinks, you get a little ****** off, as your partner would. Then if you have a friend of the opposite sex you know and have a little chat to...you need to explain who it is and if you see an ex-partner or something what I like to call a 'clinger' then the situation can potentially spiral out of your own control.

Its not a situation I like, I can trust my girl to go out on her own...although I don't think that trust is reciprocated from her end!

hmmm can totally see what u mean... but then again it depends what ur both like. normally i ALWAYS go dwon town with my mates... but i have to say all the times ive gone down with a b/f we have had a brill time! id rather be out than sat in a tack restaurant with sum guy on a piano. me and him arent the clingy types but so long as i wasnt readin any flirtin vibes then its all gud! :hihi:

[hint] I've had two large bunches of flowers delivered to work in the last few months, but nothing since the week after Valentine's day. [/endhint]

:hihi: :hihi:

hmmm can totally see what u mean... but then again it depends what ur both like. normally i ALWAYS go dwon town with my mates... but i have to say all the times ive gone down with a b/f we have had a brill time! id rather be out than sat in a tack restaurant with sum guy on a piano. me and him arent the clingy types but so long as i wasnt readin any flirtin vibes then its all gud! :hihi:

Im with you on the candle lit meal, piano playing sort of scene. I find places like that incredibly pretentious and ridiculous, especially at our age!

Flowers are crap, they die quick! The ugly Grey bears always do the trick! And don't die...

Wow, I'm impressed, Ryan - you know your stuff! ;) :P

The occasional surprise gift is very thoughtful, I think, and is something nice for both people to do. But I think girls going shopping with their boyfriends every weekend, and expecting the bloke to pay for the outfit, is very dodgy territory. :nono:

StarSparkle

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Ive bought flowers for my girlfriends before.

the first time I found them in the bin after college. And the seconds time she finished me a week later
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Wow, I'm impressed, Ryan - you know your stuff! ;) :P

The occasional surprise gift is very thoughtful, I think, and is something nice for both people to do. But I think girls going shopping with their boyfriends every weekend, and expecting the bloke to pay for the outfit, is very dodgy territory. :nono:

StarSparkle

oh yeh i know of a lass that does this she calls her bf the bank of b**!!!!! if only he knew!

i couldnt go shopping with a man every wknd its my idea of hell ive got much better things to do.... but when i have been with a man i much prefer findin stuff out for him like a new top or trainers.... u can dress them how u like hahaha!!! :) i would never expect a man to get his plastic out like that for me.... unless there was a genuine reason or you knew you would be genuinely payin it back :thumbsup:

Aw I love it when somebody buys me flowers, jewellery, bears, anything!

People can go a bit overboard and it makes me think *cheesy!* but its nice every now and then. And not just birthdays!

well... my bloke sometimes buys me the most gorgeous flowers that cost a fortune, when he went to Iraq he had 12 roses in a vase with a box of chocolates sent to my house, they cost him £80!!!! it was the most fantastic suprise, espc as he wasnt home for 6months!!!! also, when he has the money and nearly every month, he buys me one of those gorgeous metoyou bears from clintons, i absolutly love them ive got at least 40 bears now hee hee :)
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well... my bloke sometimes buys me the most gorgeous flowers that cost a fortune, when he went to Iraq he had 12 roses in a vase with a box of chocolates sent to my house, they cost him £80!!!! it was the most fantastic suprise, espc as he wasnt home for 6months!!!! also, when he has the money and nearly every month, he buys me one of those gorgeous metoyou bears from clintons, i absolutly love them ive got at least 40 bears now hee hee :)
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u lucky thing MG!!! u sound like he treats u like a princess hahaha!! the bears sound cute. but id be buzzed out with the 80 pound flowers- what were they Orchids or summat?? :hihi: hope u ok dalin xxx

Flowers - or any other romantic gesture - are very welcome, especially when your partner goes to the trouble of seeking out your favourite flowers. Simply buying flowers for no other reason than you might like them is a lovely gesture.

The most romantic gesture I can recall was when someone had a silver pendant made for me. It was of a symbol that was meaningful and special to no one else but me. He'd heard me talk about its significance to me, and the fact that I'd been trying for ages to trace something similar in various jewellery shops. I was stunned when he gave it to me.

The most romantic gesture I can recall was when someone had a silver pendant made for me. It was of a symbol that was meaningful and special to no one else but me. He'd heard me talk about its significance to me, and the fact that I'd been trying for ages to trace something similar in various jewellery shops. I was stunned when he gave it to me.

Oh I think that's a lovely gesture, Hecate - you must have been beyond delighted.

That's what present-giving is all about - seeking just the right gift for the person you care about - something that's meaningful to them.

My favourite-ever present came from my husband on my birthday a few years ago. He had a painting created specially for me, with a design he knew was special to me, and painted in the bright, uplifting colours he knows I love. I really couldn't believe it when I opened the wrapping paper - I think I was absolutely speechless for a while! :)

It's the thoughtfulness that counts.

StarSparkle

i wish a man would buy me flowers :(

i buy flowers at least once a month, nothing special, but favourite flowers.althoug just bought a bunch of those birds of paradise,now they do look impressive.
i even buy them for my daughter on occasion,usually if shes been under the weather or studying hard for exams.

luckily my woman hates materialism and expects me to provide her only with things money can't buy ;)

Ok you have to treat em (women that is!) every now and again, but people who buy stuff like bears etc...I know many blokes who have done stuff like that, it's meaningless as usually a few months later they are either getting off with someone else, or have split up with their missus! Providing emotional support is more important surely?!

...Providing emotional support is more important surely?!
Well yes, but that doesn't have to preclude the notion of giving flowers, or other little spontaneous romantic gestures.

Hey Diamond hunni, yeah he does :) bless his cottons lol

The £80 flowers were just very big red roses in a huge clear glass vase, they were beautiful!!!

hope ur alright :wave:

i wish a man would buy me flowers :(

Thats what u think :rolleyes:

well... my bloke sometimes buys me the most gorgeous flowers that cost a fortune, when he went to Iraq he had 12 roses in a vase with a box of chocolates sent to my house, they cost him £80!!!! it was the most fantastic suprise, espc as he wasnt home for 6months!!!! also, when he has the money and nearly every month, he buys me one of those gorgeous metoyou bears from clintons, i absolutly love them ive got at least 40 bears now hee hee :)
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Bloody do gooder! You tell mr. Gobby from me that supportive, loving, caring boyfriends like him give us normal blokes a bad name and I would politely request him to stop making us look worse then we actually are! :hihi:

Providing emotional support is more important surely?!

Only to a girl who is worth settling down with.

well... my bloke sometimes buys me the most gorgeous flowers that cost a fortune, when he went to Iraq he had 12 roses in a vase with a box of chocolates sent to my house, they cost him £80!!!! it was the most fantastic suprise, espc as he wasnt home for 6months!!!! also, when he has the money and nearly every month, he buys me one of those gorgeous metoyou bears from clintons, i absolutly love them ive got at least 40 bears now hee hee :)
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thats bad when a bloke tells you how much he has spent

Providing emotional support is more important surely?!

But surely thoughtfulness is a form of emotional support?

It's the thought behind a gift that should count, the care taken in choosing it, not the gift itself. (Or at least that's the way it should be)

StarSparkle

Once i was in a really bad mood (time of the month) :rant: and my boyfriend came round with a giant gift bag that was called a "period pack" he had put in it.....chocolate (cos girlies crave it when they are on) the simpsons on dvd to watch and cheer me up, camomile tea and a hot water bottle (to easy the period pain) some ibuprofen, more chocolate, some flowers and lots of other little bits to get me through the dreaded week. It was so nice and cheered me up no end.

He always buys me flowers...which has now gone to pretty plants cos i kill flowers instantly! And one day when i was having a really bad day at work he bought me a necklace with a red heart on it that i love and wear to work when i know its going to be 'one of those days' to cheer me up!

But surely thoughtfulness is a form of emotional support?

It's the thought behind a gift that should count, the care taken in choosing it, not the gift itself. (Or at least that's the way it should be)

StarSparkle

erm yeh, which is why i dont discount buying stuff, but when a bloke either go's over the top and buys stuff every week,then surely alarm bells should start ringing with the woman? its like telling your woman that you love her too often, it kinda doesn't mean much...too much of a good thing?

Also, almost all of my girlfriends and now my wife hated being bought rubbish like bears with I LOVE YOU on them, maybe I dont attract the soppy dora's!?

erm yeh, which is why i dont discount buying stuff, but when a bloke either go's over the top and buys stuff every week,then surely alarm bells should start ringing with the woman? its like telling your woman that you love her too often, it kinda doesn't mean much...too much of a good thing?

Also, almost all of my girlfriends and now my wife hated being bought rubbish like bears with I LOVE YOU on them, maybe I dont attract the soppy dora's!?

A carefully-chosen, inexpensive present is far preferable, in my opinion, to any amount of flowers and chocolates and other generic-type gifts. To be honest, I've never really liked receiving flowers, because it says to me that the bloke couldn't be bothered to give some thought to what I, as an individual, would like. It kind of upsets me to get flowers, actually, because I know they'll die. :( ok, so I'm soppy....

I agree with you, Yer_Get_Meh, that if your partner is constantly showering you with gifts, it's maybe time to be a bit concerned, as they may be trying to buy your love in a rather unhealthy way.

StarSparkle

Mr Godzilla often buys me flowers, but his best every gift was a few years ago when he bought me a motorbike for my birthday! - and he HATES motorbikes.

i had a boyfriend who bought me flowers all the time. i like flowers but it does my head in having to sort them out into a vase. nice thought though. bless him

i had a boyfriend who bought me flowers all the time.

Do you guys see the corrolation here?

If you want your relationship to last, don't buy flowers.

Yup... a single red rose on every month anniversary until the 6th month... Was well nice :)

I'd find it more thoughtful to plant a rose bush together and grow yer own! hehe :)

I buy flowers for my g/f just because she likes them. I find they're appreciated more if they're bought without having to have a reason or excuse. :)

I have had a few of my partner and boyfriends in the past....

I did have a lovely bunch off a male patient once which was nice

I've bought flowers once or twice, but I prefer gifts or teddies. I once bought a winnie the pooh bear that was holding a heart that said I love you on the front :blush: Probably one of my cutest guestures :)

I dont like flowers - they are quite environmentally unsound (most are flown hundreds of miles to get here) - so I get plants and chocolates and mostly anything else I have expressed a mild interest in thats not a waste of money. I'm a lucky bean but I do the same for him.

It is the 'thought' that counts. Though, if a man bought me flowers, I would be over the moon ! :D
Sorry, my secret's out. It isn't because that I want flowers, and he got them for me. It is precisely because it's such a cliche thing, but it's never been done to me before. I think I got my first bunch of flowers from a female friend for my 21st. The 2nd bunch was from my bro. (It doesn't count.)

I do agree that it is the sentiment. It's basically getting something u know that particular girl hold high regards for. Whether it is teddy bear, or whether it is flowers, or just a boiled sweet. (She might have never had a boiled sweet before.) The gesture may seem silly, but to the girl, it may be sentimental, and holds great values.

My ex got me a mug for Xmas. I was *so* over the moon ! :) It isn't because I don't have mugs, or because it was an expensive mug. It was because I had my eye on such mugs before, and never bought it for myself, yet he bought it. He doesn't even know I love such things. Cos we never talk of it, and neither do I have any... That just seems like fate.

Then again, he bought me the biccies from his hotel room before, and I was like...'wot' ? :P Maybe not so fateful. lol...

I don't think guys should be afraid of how flowers may seem to a girl. It's a guy's thinking... If u want to do something, then go do it. Don't think twice, and um or ah... Sincerity speaks volume, rather than typical stereotypes.

Then again, he bought me the biccies from his hotel room before, and I was like...'wot' ? :P Maybe not so fateful. lol...


Lol Bago my ex once gave me a Virgin atlantic flight bag. Eye mask and all - what on earth was that about? He redeemed himself on the valentines day though ;)

my boyfriend and me had a little fall out the other month, and he came round that night with a bunch of flowers and a teddy to say sorry. it was only when he gave the flowers to me that i realized they were plastic...i asked why and he said they would last longer that way and he didnt know if i had a varse to put real ones in...and he was compleatly serious. lol. well thought that counts i guess.

my boyfriend and me had a little fall out the other month, and he came round that night with a bunch of flowers and a teddy to say sorry. it was only when he gave the flowers to me that i realized they were plastic...i asked why and he said they would last longer that way and he didnt know if i had a varse to put real ones in...and he was compleatly serious. lol. well thought that counts i guess.
I think that's lovely. Really disarmingly sweet and charming, in a strangely practical way. At least he'd put some thought into it :) .

I love flowers and am fortunate to have a hubby who knows and is happy to buy them for me frequently

I think I have had flowers once in the five years that we have been together. He says they are a waste of money. He isnt really one for romantic gestures really. :(

I think I have had flowers once in the five years that we have been together. He says they are a waste of money. He isnt really one for romantic gestures really. :(


Your man aint wrong there :thumbsup:

Your man aint wrong there :thumbsup:

Dont agree with him or I will never get any more :o

Dont agree with him or I will never get any more :o

Good man!! Whilst we are on romance, my gf was talking too much today whilst I was watching Germany vs. Ecuador so I locked her in my walk-in-wardrobe for 10 mins.

Good man!! Whilst we are on romance, my gf was talking too much today whilst I was watching Germany vs. Ecuador so I locked her in my walk-in-wardrobe for 10 mins.

you should lock her in till the end of the World Cup, How selfish is she :|

you should lock her in till the end of the World Cup, How selfish is she :|

Well it was her first warning spee, I think the full tournament is a more a level 3!

Good man!! Whilst we are on romance, my gf was talking too much today whilst I was watching Germany vs. Ecuador so I locked her in my walk-in-wardrobe for 10 mins.

thats a light hearted sentence, im disappointed in you thomas

I think I have had flowers once in the five years that we have been together. He says they are a waste of money. He isnt really one for romantic gestures really. :(

see and this one is still with her partner

i have a sneaky suspicion if he bought you flower all time you would not be finished :hihi:

No...I haven't got any BF yet...

see and this one is still with her partner



Yeah I love him anyway but flowers would be nice now and again a girl needs a little romance sometimes to make her feel special. I am sure I am not the only one to think this.

i wish a man would buy me flowers :(

Your wish will be granted! See you at the Woodseats forum meet on Friday. I'll be the guy holding the poses! :hihi:

Yeah I love him anyway but flowers would be nice now and again a girl needs a little romance sometimes to make her feel special. I am sure I am not the only one to think this.

A girl needs romance now and again - but if he bought me flowers I'd ask him what he'd done wrong... :D
Although, saying that, I wish he'd buy me some roses sometimes (and not the chocolate variety either :P )

A girl needs romance now and again - but if he bought me flowers I'd ask him what he'd done wrong... :D


He He. Your probably right there. :P

I havent been bought flowers by a bloke- but I always treat mrs ang when at all possible to little gifts now and then when I can.. I think it keeps things interesting and also I want her to know how much I appreciate her and love her to bits.

The last present I bought her was the apple shaped DKNY perfume from Crystal Peaks- it smells lovely on her :thumbsup:

Flowers, I usually get now and again- I reckon flowers should be sent on major occasions or now and again as they make a bigger impression when needed on bigger occasions.

I've been brought quite a few bunches of flowers and a prezzies in the past but now that I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, I only get little treats on my birthday or Christmas etc.

Yeah I love him anyway but flowers would be nice now and again a girl needs a little romance sometimes to make her feel special. I am sure I am not the only one to think this.
No, of course you're not. It's bizarre that some blokes don't bother at all, when it could be something simple like a letter, a lovely shell picked up from the beach while on holiday, or a hand-picked flower.

I'd be surprised if some of the blokes who've posted on here could get a woman to stay with them for more than half an hour :hihi: .

I have been bought flowers through out my life despite usually having a garden full of them.
Now I am bought flowers by my autistic son which I value more because I know what an effort it has been for him to do it.

hazel

Yeah I love him anyway but flowers would be nice now and again a girl needs a little romance sometimes to make her feel special. I am sure I am not the only one to think this.

as soon as he buys you some, he will be on the heap with all the other flower buyers :hihi:

Your wish will be granted! See you at the Woodseats forum meet on Friday. I'll be the guy holding the poses! :hihi:

*giggles like a school girl* he he he he he

can't wait :love:

as soon as he buys you some, he will be on the heap with all the other flower buyers :hihi:

No as soon as he buys me some he will be in my good books for a while. :D

Ive only ever been sent flowers once...and they were sent to my work, it was a nice surprise

For valentines day this year, he had a big bunch of red roses and a bottle of pink bubbly sent to me, which i thought was lovely, but he is full of surprizes :)

For valentines day this year, he had a big bunch of red roses and a bottle of pink bubbly sent to me, which i thought was lovely, but he is full of surprizes :)

Aww I would love that h:love:

Well i would just like to change my statement, as 4 men bought me flowers last night

im the luckiest boy alive :D :D :D :D

Well i would just like to change my statement, as 4 men bought me flowers last night

im the luckiest boy alive :D :D :D :D

This doesn't mean you've got a date with me though Robbie! - nobikejohn

Or me! - Andy

Same here! - J-Blaze

In that case..... hello sweetie - Red:hihi: :hihi: :hihi: :hihi:

Well i would just like to change my statement, as 4 men bought me flowers last night...
Four blokes bought you flowers? Good grief. Maybe it's time I went to one of these Dev Cat nights :hihi: .

Four blokes bought you flowers? Good grief. Maybe it's time I went to one of these Dev Cat nights :hihi: .


woodseats meets, lot more classier :hihi:

My husband sometimes buys me flowers, but never when I am expecting them. This morning he bought me some croissants and brought them to me in bed with a vup of cofeee, far more palitable than flowers, yummy!

My husband sometimes buys me flowers, but never when I am expecting them. This morning he bought me some croissants and brought them to me in bed with a vup of cofeee, far more palitable than flowers, yummy!

obviously from maccies :D

obviously from maccies :D


Maccies???

Maccies???
Mcdonald's......

doesn't matter

Mcdonald's......

doesn't matter

What is this thing you call McDonald's? :hihi:

What is this thing you call McDonald's? :hihi:

its my mecca :D

my late husband only bought me flowers once and that was when our first son was born as i had told him that i wanted some red roses bringing to the hospital after i had him and he did, the only trouble was that i could not have them as i was very ill after having my son my blood pressure had gone sky high and i had to be in a dark room sedated and i just saw a shadow of him holding these flowers, he had spent his last bit of money on them as at the time he was not working so did not have much money.

no but i don't see the point of them they attract bees that like to sting me then they die (both the bees and the flowers lol) I'd rather have chocolates

I love being spontainious, I probably get more of kick out of it than the person who receives it. But no-one has ever been disappointed I make sure of it. I also think it proves who much/often you think about someone.
It may be the thought that counts.
But people who buy (crap) use that as an excuse for not spending money.
Yes I have bought loads of flowers (spontainiously I add)
I dont need a reason (not just birthdays/christmas)

I love being spontainious, I probably get more of kick out of it than the person who receives it. But no-one has ever been disappointed I make sure of it. I also think it proves who much/often you think about someone.
It may be the thought that counts.
But people who buy (crap) use that as an excuse for not spending money.
Yes I have bought loads of flowers (spontainiously I add)
I dont need a reason (not just birthdays/christmas)

got to say, DW, your taste in jewellery is impeccable, babes; you have bought me some lovely presents; jewellery, particularly, which I have been totally thrilled with, but I've never had flowers,off you, yet! ;) X-X-X

and no, that isn't a hint, cos I've got to admit, I think that cut flowers are a rip-off, and I'd much rather see them growing in the garden etc, than dying-off, in a vase. (you know me, I'm MUCH more practical than that!)
X-X-X

PT

That's the reason why, they would be wasted on you, caine would eat them and make himself sick lol

That's the reason why, they would be wasted on you, caine would eat them and make himself sick lol

Well, he'd definitely try begging for them, that's for sure!

PT

i buy the lady in my life a single red rose... after it has dried out and is starting to look worse for wear i buy her another to replace it. :)

I wish! I keep dropping hints, saying how lil things more a lot, but no chance!:(

I wish! I keep dropping hints, saying how lil things more a lot, but no chance!:(
I think you need a new bloke in that case :) .

i voted never ever

and thank god for that :P

Is not really that much hastle is it? I mean they are a couple of quid from the super makret and its more the guesture than what they look like. I don't get why more men can't do it.

My husband has bought me flowers on the birth of our children the gin that came with the last much more appreciated. Last week he bought me some as well now VERY worried what has he done ?

My husband has bought me flowers on the birth of our children the gin that came with the last much more appreciated. Last week he bought me some as well now VERY worried what has he done ?

Why do women always think we've done something wrong when we buy flowers :hihi:

Never mind buying flowers, I think somethings wrong when he offers to do me the pots :confused: :P

Never mind buying flowers, I think somethings wrong when he offers to do me the pots :confused: :P

There's clearly something wrong here! You said "Do me the pots" ~ as in wash the pots on your behalf... Now unless your other half also employs you as a pot washer, there is something wrong here! (Well, unless you eat off the crockery and he eats off paper plates... then fair do's...)

There's clearly something wrong here! You said "Do me the pots" ~ as in wash the pots on your behalf... Now unless your other half also employs you as a pot washer, there is something wrong here! (Well, unless you eat off the crockery and he eats off paper plates... then fair do's...)

Does Ryan do the pots? :| sorry, just can't see it :P :hihi:

Does Ryan do the pots? :| sorry, just can't see it :P :hihi:

Dunno, don't live with him! :P

My guys life revolves around his pc and doesnt really have time for anyone or thing else, so for me its a shocker but also flattering

My guys life revolves around his pc and doesnt really have time for anyone or thing else, so for me its a shocker but also flattering

:roll: This sounds all too familiar for my liking!
Don't be walked over sweetie... Take it in turns to wash the pots, or even do it together :)

:roll: This sounds all too familiar for my liking!
Don't be walked over sweetie... Take it in turns to wash the pots, or even do it together :)

Gonna help me with the dishes on saturday? :D

Gonna help me with the dishes on saturday? :D

If I can make it, ofcourse I will :) I'll wash, you dry :clap:
*whispers* Then we can go and watch Arthur :D

Does Ryan do the pots? :| sorry, just can't see it :P :hihi:

Dont mention my name sweetie! Thanks

If I can make it, ofcourse I will :) I'll wash, you dry :clap:
*whispers* Then we can go and watch Arthur :D
Will have to fight the tempation to slap you on the arse with the towel :hihi: :P

Arthurrrrrrr :D

Why do women always think we've done something wrong when we buy flowers :hihi:
Because it is a rare event if you did it often we would not be worried . I do hope that my husband reads this post hint hint :hihi:

I buy my girlfriend flowers sometimes, maybe 5 times a year, any more times and she seems to think somethings wrong. I cook her food for her and even dry the pots! I don't wash i'm afraid, the marigolds just don't suit me.:)